If you want to feel good,

you need to learn how to feel.

I’m Michael Dresser. I can help you improve your pleasure, sex, and relationships.

I create safe, gentle, and engaging environments for you to learn about intimacy and connection, have more fun with your body, and (re)discover how to feel.

Choice and the needs of the individual are at the centre of each experience I facilitate, whether in a group, a partnership, or with an individual. All my work is guided by the principles of the Wheel Of Consent®

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What are you interested in?

For individuals


Guided one-to-one retreats for men who want to explore safe, meaningful intimacy with another man

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Pleasure In Yourself

A guided programme to help you (re)discover and connect with your own body. Learn and practice the simple, foundational skills for pleasure you never got taught in sex-ed classes!

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The Art Of Giving & Receiving

Learn a powerful model for one-to-one giving and receiving with the 4 essential experiences of touch.

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Learning To Touch

A step-by-step guided touch practice that will change the way you feel in 6 simple sessions. Unlock your connection with sensation and choice without the need to touch anyone else.

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For couples

The Joy of Touch – for couples

A simple, illuminating practice for couples to improve touch and communication – so you can BOTH get a touch experience you really enjoy

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Navigating Relationships

A powerful practice for couples. 6 essential sessions to help you start navigating your relationship in a conscious, healthy way.

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Take your next steps towards a more connected love-life...

There are lots of ways you can work with me online. Find out about the difference between online and in-person coaching, and which is right for you. Click for more...


Discover your buried pleasure...

When it comes to intimacy your body already has all the knowledge it needs.

Using body-based principles I work collaboratively with you, giving you tools to help you (re)connect with yourself, and others.

I offer a space in which you can be held as safely as possible, and fully seen and heard, without judgement.

Life-skills for your love-life

I believe consent is a fundamental life skill. And if we want it in the bedroom, we need to learn it everywhere else first!

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Notice what your body feels

For many people sex and intimacy can be challenging, which may direct them to supress or turn away from the natural instincts their body is providing because it does not feel safe. I offer practices and tools to become more fully aware of what you really feel, and an environment in which to engage with this safely.

Trust what your body wants

Once you understand what you feel it becomes easier to know what it is you truly want – or don’t want. But it’s not always easy to trust your desires. I offer body-based practices to open the door to more fully engaging with what feels good to you, exploring your authentic pleasure in the way that only you know how.

Communicate what your body enjoys

When you’re able to notice and trust what feels good to you, the key to fulfilling relationships is finding ways to express your desires. I offer a learning environment for you to develop and practice new ways of communicating your needs and getting them met.

"Connection:  the energy that exists between people when they feel seen, heard, and valued...when they can give and receive without judgment"

Brené Brown

If you haven't worked with me before click here to find out more about what's involved in a first-time no-obligation Discovery Session...

"My work with Michael was transformative.  Michael's great skill lies in his intuitive sense and our work together provided a gateway to a deeper connection in my body / mind"

"One moment touched me immensely deeply – opening a tiny chink in a rather well protected piece of antique personal armour. Thank you for holding the space with such beautiful sensitivity

"Michael is a wonderful facilitator. He creates a safe space so I completely trusted him and could relax ... I benefited immensely from what I learnt and what I felt"

The Happy Hypersexual

I’m proud to have been asked to write the forward for Jason Armstrong’s new book ‘The Happy Hypersexual’, which explores the male sexual experience in the context of a global pandemic.

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What is mindful sex?

What is mindful sex, and how can mindful sex coaching help you? Here are some simple suggestions to get you started…

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Getting Off – a review

Read my in depth review for Undividing Lines Magazine of ‘Getting Off – The Unlikely Chronicles of a Solosexual On PrEP’, the new book by Jason Armstrong, author of the groundbreaking ‘Solosexual – Portrait of a Masturbator’.

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The 4 Experiences of Giving & Receiving

Learn about 4 different kinds of giving and receiving. And the 2 essential questions that will help you understand which one you’re doing.

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Need A Hand?

How will you celebrate International Masturbation Day? Find out how to go from pleasuring yourself to finding pleasure in yourself.

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Communication – How To Ask For What You Want

It’s great to know what you want, but you also need to know how to communicate it clearly. Learn 3 ways to ask effectively for what you want.

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What do Kylie and a nutmeg grater (and Christmas) have to do with the Accepting quadrant?

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Stop Doing, Start Choosing

When touch is on offer we tend to think of the touch itself as the thing to focus on. But the process happening behind the scenes is not actually about the touch at all.

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To Clench Or Not To Clench

Pelvic floor exercises are advocated by post-natal and Tantra sources alike as a failsafe way to improve performance – be it in the bathroom or the bedroom. But is all that squeezing really good for you?

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