Notice what your body feels
For many people sex and intimacy can be challenging, which may direct them to supress or turn away from the natural instincts their body is providing because it does not feel safe. I offer practices and tools to become more fully aware of what you really feel – sensation or emotion – and an environment in which to engage with this safely.
Trust what your body wants
Once you understand what you feel it becomes easier to know what it is you truly want – or don’t want. But it’s not always easy to trust your desires. I offer body-based practices to open the door to more fully engaging with what feels good to you, exploring your authentic pleasure in the way that only you know how.
Communicate what your body enjoys
When you’re able to notice and trust what feels good to you, the key to fulfilling interactions is finding ways to express your desires. Like any muscle, building these skills takes work, so I offer a learning environment in which to develop and practice new ways of communicating your needs and getting them met.
Life-skills for your love-life
Although most of us tend to equate the idea of consent with sex, I believe consent is actually a fundamental life skill. If we want to learn to have consent, choice and agreement in the bedroom, we need to learn to have it everywhere else first! Read more about the Wheel Of Consent which underpins all my work.
"My work with Michael was transformative. Michael's great skill lies in his intuitive sense and our work together provided a gateway to a deeper connection in my body/ mind"
M, Scotland
"One moment touched me immensely deeply – opening a tiny chink in a rather well protected piece of antique personal armour. Thank you for holding the space with such beautiful sensitivity”
C, London
"Michael is very perceptive and supportive. I learnt a great deal in quite a short time, and experienced an opening up of what had been very shut down!"
B, England
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Giving & Receiving
Learn about 4 different kinds of giving and receiving. And the 2 essential questions that will help you understand which one you’re doing.
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Wheel Of Consent Essentials – Edinburgh
26 July, Edinburgh. This 1-day ‘hands-on’ introductory workshop teaches you the essentials of the Wheel Of Consent. Learn a new way to navigate connection, and bring a completely fresh approach to all your relationships.
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Exploring the Wheel Of Consent – Belfast
3 – 5 July, Belfast. Understand giving and receiving better with this life-changing practice. Learn the essentials of the Wheel Of Consent in this 1.5-day ‘hands-on’ workshop for everyone. Plus: additional day of deeper learning and practice for bodywork practitioners. Assisted by Dee Larsen.
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Need A Hand?
How will you celebrate International Masturbation Day? Find out how to go from pleasuring yourself to finding pleasure in yourself.
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