Michael Dresser

find your buried pleasure

Working with me is great for connection to self, couples, pleasure, arousal, better sex, confidence with what you want... and much more!

Blog

Read some of my writing, tips, and explorations. (Please note: some may open in my Wheel Of Consent website. To return here simply click the back button in your browser.)

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Decision or Choice – what’s the difference?

July 2, 2020

Many of us might consider the words ‘decision’ and ‘choice’ to be ever-present, and almost interchangeable. Here’s why it’s essential to distinguish between them, and how you can do that.

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hands free to touch after lockdown

Why lockdown is the perfect time to learn how to touch

April 13, 2020

Being on lockdown, quarantined, or isolated from other people, is almost the perfect environment to learn how to touch. Here’s why…

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Getting Off – a review

April 10, 2020

Read my in depth review for Undividing Lines Magazine of ‘Getting Off – The Unlikely Chronicles of a Solosexual On PrEP’, the new book by Jason Armstrong, author of the groundbreaking ‘Solosexual – Portrait of a Masturbator’.

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Overwhelmed? Learn your Want from your Willing

August 28, 2019

If you’re feeling overwhelmed the Wheel Of Consent provides a great framework to look at how you make decisions about what you do or don’t agree to – and why.

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Need A Hand?

May 25, 2019

How will you celebrate International Masturbation Day? Find out how to go from pleasuring yourself to finding pleasure in yourself.

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Gifted

December 26, 2018

What do Kylie and a nutmeg grater (and Christmas) have to do with the Accepting quadrant?

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The Joy of Socks

September 14, 2018

What’s the connection between the socks you choose, and having better relationships? It’s not what you might think…

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To Clench Or Not To Clench

July 27, 2018

Pelvic floor exercises are advocated by post-natal and Tantra sources alike as a failsafe way to improve performance – be it in the bathroom or the bedroom. But is all that squeezing really good for you?

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