Michael Dresser

mindful sex  & intimacy coaching

Discover more mindful pleasure, intimacy, sex and relationships. Safe, gentle, and engaging environments for you to learn how to create connection, and have more fun with your body.

Blog

Read some of my writing, tips, and explorations. (Please note: some may open in my Wheel Of Consent website. To return here simply click the back button in your browser.)

happy hypersexual book

The Happy Hypersexual

November 20, 2020

I’m proud to have been asked to write the forward for Jason Armstrong’s new book ‘The Happy Hypersexual’, which explores the male sexual experience in the context of a global pandemic.

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What is mindful sex?

November 7, 2020

What is mindful sex, and how can mindful sex coaching help you? Here are some simple suggestions to get you started…

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I don't know what I want

Why it’s OK to say ‘I don’t know what I want’

September 29, 2020

2 (and a half) top tips to help you overcome the fear of getting stuck in ‘I don’t know what I want’. How choice and change can become your friends.

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Decision or Choice – what’s the difference?

July 2, 2020

Many of us might consider the words ‘decision’ and ‘choice’ to be ever-present, and almost interchangeable. Here’s why it’s essential to distinguish between them, and how you can do that.

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hands free to touch after lockdown

Why lockdown is the perfect time to learn how to touch

April 13, 2020

Being on lockdown, quarantined, or isolated from other people, is almost the perfect environment to learn how to touch. Here’s why…

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Getting Off – a review

April 10, 2020

Read my in depth review for Undividing Lines Magazine of ‘Getting Off – The Unlikely Chronicles of a Solosexual On PrEP’, the new book by Jason Armstrong, author of the groundbreaking ‘Solosexual – Portrait of a Masturbator’.

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Overwhelmed? Learn your Want from your Willing

August 28, 2019

If you’re feeling overwhelmed the Wheel Of Consent provides a great framework to look at how you make decisions about what you do or don’t agree to – and why.

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Need A Hand?

May 25, 2019

How will you celebrate International Masturbation Day? Find out how to go from pleasuring yourself to finding pleasure in yourself.

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