Michael Dresser

mindful gay sex & intimacy coaching

Discover more mindful pleasure, intimacy, sex and relationships. Safe, gentle, and engaging environments for you to learn how to create connection, and have more fun with your body.

What are some of the tools I use for mindful sex and intimacy coaching?

Mindful sex and intimacy coaching sessions with me can involve many different tools and practices to helping you become more fully embodied with your pleasure.

Here are some of the mindful sex and intimacy tools I work with. There are lots of options for how we can work together in a way that's right for you and your body, so get in touch to explore more.


If we find ourselves repeatedly restricted from safely expressing how we truly feel then sooner or later we’ll learn to stop listening to our body.

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Just weeks after you were conceived you began to develop the first of your 5 senses – touch. So why have we lost touch with touch?

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Gabrielle Roth, founder of 5Rhythms, had the right idea when she observed that “the fastest way to still the mind is move the body”.

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Paying attention to the breath can be an incredibly powerful way to bring you from your mind back to your body and sensation.

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Mapping is a great way of re-connecting the body with touch, and finding out what’s really there – or even what isn’t there!

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Mindful masturbation

Pleasuring yourself should be a conscious practice – in a similar way to the practice of mindful meditation, or yoga.

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Porn and fantasy

Overcome an unhealthy relationship with porn or fantasy through a gentle, non-judgemental body-based process.

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Conscious consent

In any exchange there’s a giver and a receiver, someone doing and someone being done to. But just because you’re doing doesn’t mean you’re giving!

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