Michael Dresser

mindful sex  & intimacy coaching

Discover more mindful pleasure, intimacy, sex and relationships. Safe, gentle, and engaging environments for you to learn how to create connection, and have more fun with your body.


I can work with you in a variety of ways - self-touch, one-way touch, or two-way touch - depending on what will serve you best. All my work is underpinned by clear agreements, professional ethics and protocols.

Read more about the differences between one-way touch, and two-way touch sessions, and then browse the touch-based session options below.

One-way touch

If we’re working together in a session which is focussed on your learning, and involves genital or erotic touch I use Sexological Bodywork protocols to help keep both of us as safe as possible, and facilitate your learning:

  • Touch is one way (from me to you)
  • I remain clothed (this may be fully clothed, or light covering such as a sarong or underwear, depending on your preference)
  • I wear gloves for any genital or internal touch

What are the benefits?

Often people who hope initially for an interactive, mutual experience find that keeping the focus on the experience in their own body allows them to access a different and deeper new knowledge of their body’s capacities (erotic, or non-erotic).

Sexological Bodywork is 100% safe. I wear gloves as appropriate to ensure there is no fluid exchange between us.

Two-way touch

Check out my session packages involving touch:


Guided one-to-one retreats for men who want to explore safe, meaningful intimacy with another man

Read More
learn to touch

Learning To Touch

A step-by-step guided touch practice that will change the way you feel in 6 simple sessions. Unlock your connection with sensation and choice without the need to touch anyone else.

Read More
couples relationships

Navigating Relationships

A powerful practice for couples. 6 essential sessions to help you start navigating your relationship in a conscious, healthy way.

Read More

Pleasure In Yourself

A guided programme to help you (re)discover and connect with your own body. Learn and practice the simple, foundational skills for pleasure you never got taught in sex-ed classes!

Read More
giving and receiving

The Art Of Giving & Receiving

Learn a powerful model for one-to-one giving and receiving with the 4 essential experiences of touch.

Read More