Michael Dresser

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Decision or Choice – what’s the difference?

Many of us might consider the words ‘decision’ and ‘choice’ to be ever-present, and almost interchangeable. Here’s why it’s essential to distinguish between them, and how you can do that.

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Why lockdown is the perfect time to learn how to touch

Being on lockdown, quarantined, or isolated from other people, is almost the perfect environment to learn how to touch. Here’s why…

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Getting Off – a review

Read my in depth review for Undividing Lines Magazine of ‘Getting Off – The Unlikely Chronicles of a Solosexual On PrEP’, the new book by Jason Armstrong, author of the groundbreaking ‘Solosexual – Portrait of a Masturbator’.

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Overwhelmed? Learn your Want from your Willing

If you’re feeling overwhelmed the Wheel Of Consent provides a great framework to look at how you make decisions about what you do or don’t agree to – and why.

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Need A Hand?

How will you celebrate International Masturbation Day? Find out how to go from pleasuring yourself to finding pleasure in yourself.

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Gifted

What do Kylie and a nutmeg grater (and Christmas) have to do with the Accepting quadrant?

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The Joy of Socks

What’s the connection between the socks you choose, and having better relationships? It’s not what you might think…

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To Clench Or Not To Clench

Pelvic floor exercises are advocated by post-natal and Tantra sources alike as a failsafe way to improve performance – be it in the bathroom or the bedroom. But is all that squeezing really good for you?

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The Perfect Gift

What’s the ultimate gift for you and your loved ones this year? (Hint: it’s not festive knitwear!)

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Kiss and Tell

Look at this picture and ask yourself the following question: can you tell who this kiss is for? The answer may not be as obvious as you might think…

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