Michael Dresser

Wheel Of Consent

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Read my writing about how different aspects of the Wheel Of Consent can help you. Or scroll down for press and media articles and writing about the Wheel Of Consent.

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How to ask for consent – the 6 essential words you need

March 1, 2021

From the bedroom to the boardroom (and everywhere else as well) – when you start to use these 6 little words, you may be surprised by how useful you find them!

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How to tell if you should say ‘yes’ or ‘no’ to something

January 12, 2021

It’s not what you say, it’s why you say it. Follow these simple steps and learn how to tell when to say ‘yes’ or ‘no’ to something.

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Why it’s OK to say ‘I don’t know what I want’

September 29, 2020

2 (and a half) top tips to help you overcome the fear of getting stuck in ‘I don’t know what I want’. How choice and change can become your friends.

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Decision or Choice – what’s the difference?

July 2, 2020

Learn why it’s essential to distinguish between a choice and a decision, and how it can make the difference between surviving and thriving.

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Why lockdown is the perfect time to learn how to touch

April 13, 2020

Being on lockdown, quarantined, or isolated from other people, is almost the perfect environment to learn how to touch. Here’s why…

Articles about the Wheel Of Consent

The New York Times, 15 Dec 2020

Interview with Robyn Dalzen and Betty Martin of the School Of Consent

"This year, physical distance and safety became part of a suddenly urgent conversation for everyone. But for educators focused on intimacy and consent, questions about bodies and boundaries are a constant focus" by Julia Carmel

The Guardian, 19 May 2019

Tears, honesty and flirty games: how we escaped our married sex rut.

"After 15 years and three children, my husband and I found ourselves stuck in an ‘intimacy impasse’. Could a therapist help us sizzle again?" Liz Allen explores her options, including the 'game-changer' of the Wheel of Consent.